There's a similar spring available for another Quest model that has less power - and there's at least one instance I know of where someone ordered and got this weaker spring by mistake. You should have part# C1K77-010.
This spring has a couple of coils more than the Gamo spring but a slightly smaller overall diameter, to give it roughly the same spring rate if not a little more. There's a spreadsheet in the library called "Macarri Spring Chart" that lists the dimensions of several springs, not just Macarri's. When I put that chart together, the Crosman spring I measured seemed to have a slightly thicker wire than the Gamo spring I had measured, however subsequent comparisons showed them to be virtually identical. So maybe I happened to pick up a Gamo on the "low" side and a Crosman on the "high" side.
Regardless, the springs are very comparable. The Crosman spring (because of its greater stacked height - more coils, remember) requires a shorter tophat - if you use a typical Gamo hat the gun probably won't cock! In any case, your preload shouldn't be an issue - the Crosman hat is so thin that the custom hat you use just simply cannot be much thinner.
Also remember that any spring will "set" (get a little shorter) the first time you cock it... and these springs will tend to shorten up on the order of 1/2 to 3/4 inch. If you started out with a little less preload because of a super-thin tophat, all that I think is gonna happen is that the spring will set a little longer (because it isn't being squished as much), and you'd wind up with the same amount of preload.
The spring is a tight fit on the stock guide, that's why it doesn't twang. But remember that the spring grows in diameter when it is compressed - so it probably isn't binding on the guide during the most important part of the compression stroke.
So anyway, I have 2 questions for you:
1) Did the gun diesel noticeably when you first shot it? Even a couple of diesel shots can crunch a spring - had it happen to me a bunch and make it lose 40-50fps. But you seem to have lost much more than that.
2) When you reassembled the gun, did you debur the inside of all the holes and slots that in the compression tube? Did you dress the inside edges with a small file or a dremel tool? If not, you might have cut up the seal when you reinstalled it.
As a first step, I'd strongly recommend pulling the mainspring out and measuring its length (now that it's been shot). It should be around 10 3/4" long. If it's significantly shorter than that, you've either got a wrong spring or a bad one.