Hi Sam...I've read and re-read your post a number of times now. My first thought was "what a bunch of friggin idiots for turning down ex-military." After re-reading the post, though, I do have a (somewhat) coherent thought. I'm assuming, based upon your previous comment, you're around 30 years of age. In that case, pursue a job with your counties Sheriff's department. Don't look at road patrol right now, but DO look into their corrections (jail) officer program. Based upon your age, your number one goal right now should be to get your foot in the door, so to speak. Corrections will do this for you. Quite a number of guys I work with came from a corrections background, and virtually ALL of the deputies in my counties Sheriff's department HAD to begin their careers in the jail prior to transferring to road patrol. From there, you can allow yourself time to heal, the corrections certification program (academy) isn't nearly as hard on you, mentally or physically, and at some point in the future you can begin to apply to different police agencies around your area.
Now, here's my own personal view on what you just tried to do...
Number one, joining a highway patrol or state police department is not what a city cop considers "police work." Chasing taillights all your life is not what it's about. If you wanna hand out tickets and investigate traffic accidents, hey go for it...lots of guys like to do that, but I'm not one of em, and I'll bet ya Jeff, (longislandhunter) wasn't either. Number two, if you're serious about becoming a police officer, MAKE TIME to go to school. I don't care if it's only 1 class at a time at your local community college, you must be working on or have completed a college degree, preferably in criminal justice, before a department will take you seriously. In my own case, I have a BS and an MS, done on my own time and at my own expense. Remember, you're competing against a whole lot of people with a great deal of education for the same job. If it comes down to choosing between you with no or very little college and someone else with college, guess who wins? Take the time, if you can't do that, then you're not serious about police work as a career. Number three...forget all you learned in college, your FTO will teach you what you need to know. Sucks doesn't it? But, that's the way the game is played. Good luck to you, and thank you for the time and pain you endured helping keep my butt free.