I'm sorry to hear about your step-father; please accept my condolence on his death and your family's loss.
I think Obama is probably well-intentioned and a good man, but I also think he's misled and wrong in his political philosophy. Based on his statements and actions, thus far, I think he will do well-intentioned harm, rather than actual good. I'd love for him to be a good President that leads this country towards living by its founding principles and ideals, rather than merely giving lip service to them. Unfortunately, I don't expect that to happen. To achieve such a goal I think we all need to pray like it's up to God and work like it's up to us. Real change will only come if the people understand what is at stake and how we have allowed our liberty and principles to become eroded over the years; that almost demands something of a paradigm shift in the way people perceive U.S. politics and government, at this point.
I still cling to some hope, though. I think that Obama's mantra of "change" was well-chosen. I think the people know (or at least have a gut feeling) that change is desperately needed. That's a positive sign. It's unfortunate that the peoples' vision didn't extend beyond Obama, who doesn't represent real change at all, but only a continuation and acceleration of the policies that we've followed. I think the "change" he offers is either superficial or an acceleration of what is wrong, and not what is needed, in either case. Perhaps others (especially those who voted for him, hoping for real change) will come to see this, too.