Get both. When the second one arrives, tell your wife that you got it for her so that you both can enjoy a hobby together. I know, I know, but it worked with my wife when I was torn between getting a Shadow and 890S. I actually had her pick it out. I said, which one do you think is better, she picked the 890S, so I got both and told her that I got the 890S for her. She seemed happy and never gave me any trouble over it. One caveat to this story, she may actually like shooting and ask you to get her another one as I recently did for Christmas....a Cabelas Outfitters Thumbhole stock AR....He He He