only1harry, my comment was for smellslikepeople. Fortunately, I don't have problems with neighbors any more, because being the intolerant type, I don't put up with much BS, so I leave!
I'm fortunate to live in a retirement community, where neighbors (sparse as they are), are home a lot. I've never seen a patrol car on my cul de sac since I've lived here. I had a pocket pc/phone stolen from my mailbox once, but that's it. Kids do maraud the neighborhoods, coming from who-knows-where, but I have seen a few of them in cuffs a few times, sitting in a ditch, or on the front lawn of a home they obviously "hit". People here call the police for anything as trivial as a Wrigley's gum wrapper in their yard. Some of the stuff that gets reported in the paper is a hoot!
I'm a ham radio operator, I had to move to a rural area, because the urban sprawl where I used to live interfered with my operation. Hundreds of home entertainment devices, battery chargers, switching power supplies and adapters created havoc with my noise floor. It was intolerable. Now I may work-the-world in peace. I love it here. Sometimes it takes moving a lot to get to where you need to be. I've moved 9 times since the late 70s, with work. No more.
I really feel for you guys/gals who are in a situation where neighbors are jerks. Been there, done that. Good luck!
Charles