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Offline daved

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Important, especially if you have kids!
« on: April 14, 2008, 01:33:16 AM »
I don't normally post this kind of thing, but this one got my attention.  My brother forwarded it to me, from a sister that's in law enforcement.  You might want to pass it around to friends and family.  Later.

Dave

 
        D U S T I N G

        First, I'm going to tell you a little about me and my family. My name is Jeff. I am a Police Officer for a city which is known nationwide for its crime rate. We have a lot of gangs and drugs. At one point we were #2 in the nation in homicides per capita. I also have a police K-9 named Thor. He was certified in drugs and general duty. He retired at 3 years old because he was shot in the line of duty. He lives with us now and I still train with him because he likes it. I always liked the fact that there was no way to bring drugs into my house. Thor wouldn't allow it.  He would tell on you. The reason I say this is so you understand that I know about drugs.

        I have taught in schools about drugs. My wife asks all our kids at least once a week if they u sed any drugs. Makes them promise they won't.

        I like building computers occasionally and started building a new one in February 2005.  I also was working on some of my older computers. They were full of dust so on one of my trips to the computer store I bought a 3 pack of DUST OFF.. Dust Off is a can of compressed air to blow dust off a computer. A few weeks later when I went to use one of them they were all used. I talked to my kids and my two sons both said they had used them on their computer and messing around with them. I yelled at them for wasting the 10 dollars I paid for them.

        On February 28 I went back to the computer store. They didn't have the 3 pack which I had bought on sale so I bought a single jumbo can of Dust Off.  I went home and set it down beside my computer.  On March 1st, I left for work at 10 PM. Just before midnight my wife went down and kiss e d Kyle goodnight. At 5:30 am the next morning Kathy went downstairs to wake Kyle up for school, before she left for work.  He was propped up in bed with his legs crossed and his head leaning over.  She called to him a few times to get up. He didn't move. He would sometimes tease her like this and pretend he fell back asleep. He was never easy to get up. She went in and shook his arm. He fell over. He was pale white and had the straw from the Dust Off can coming out of his mouth. He had the new can of Dust Off in his hands. Kyle was dead.

        I am a police officer and I had never heard of this. My wife is a nurse and she had never heard of this. We later found out from the coroner, after the autopsy, that only the propellant from the can of Dust off was in his system. No other drugs. Kyle had died between midnight and 1 AM.  I found out that using Dust Off is being do ne mostly by kids ages 9 through 15. They even have a name for it. It's called dusting. A take off from the
    Dust Off name. It gives them a slight high for about 10 seconds.. It makes them dizzy. A boy who lives down the street from us showed Kyle how to do this about a month before. Kyle showed his best friend. Told him it was cool and it couldn't hurt you. It's just compressed air. It can't hurt you. His best friend said no.

        Kyle was wrong. It's not just compressed air. It also contains a propellant called R2. It's a refrigerant like what is used in your refrigerator. It is a heavy gas, heavier than air. When you inhale it, it fills your lungs and keeps the good air, with oxygen, out that's why you feel dizzy, buzzed. It decreases the oxygen to your brain, to your heart. Kyle was right. It can't hurt you. IT KILLS YOU!

        The horrible part about this is there is no warning. There i s n o level that kills you. It's not cumulative or an overdose; it can just go randomly, terribly wrong. Roll the dice and if your number comes up you die.. IT'S NOT AN OVERDOSE. It's Russian Roulette. You don't die later.  Or not feel good and say I've had too much. You usually die as you're breathing it in, if not you die within 2 seconds of finishing 'the hit.'   That's why the straw was still in Kyle's mouth when he died. Why his eyes were still open.

        The experts want to call this huffing. The kids don't believe its huffing. As adults we tend to lump many things together. But it doesn't fit here. And that's why it's more accepted.  There is no chemical reaction, no strong odor. It doesn't follow the huffing signals. Kyle complained a few days before he died of his tongue hurting. It probably did. The propellant causes frostbite. If I had only known.  It's easy to say hey, it's m y li fe
    and I'll do what I want. But it isn't. Others are always affected. This has forever changed our family's life. I have a hole in my heart and soul that can never be fixed. The pain is so immense I can't describe it. There's nowhere to run from it.  I cry all the time and I don't ever cry. I do what I'm supposed to do but I don't really care. My kids are messed up. One won't talk about it. The other will only sleep in our room at night. And my wife, I can't even describe how bad she is taking this. I thought we were safe because of Thor.  I thought we were safe because we knew about drugs and talked to our kids about them.

        After Kyle died another story came out. A probation Officer went to the school system next to ours to speak with a student. While there he found a student using Dust Off in the bathroom. This student told him about another student who also had some in his loc ker. This is a rather affluent school system. They will tell you they don't have a drug problem there.  They don't even have a dare or plus program there. So rather than tell everyone about this 'new' way of getting high they found, they hid it.

        The probation officer told the media after Kyle's death and they, the school, then admitted to it. I know that if they would have told the media and I had heard, it wouldn't have been in my house.

        We need to get this out of our homes and school computer labs. Using Dust Off isn't new and some 'professionals' do know about. It just isn't talked about much, except by the kids. They all seem to know about it.

        April 2nd was 1 month since Kyle died. April 5th would have been his 15th birthday. And every weekday I catch myself sitting on the living room couch at 2:30 in the afternoon and waiting to see him get off the bus . I& nbsp; know Kyle is in heaven but I can't help but wonder if I died and went to Hell.

        This Officer is asking for EVERYONE who receives this email to forward it to everyone in their address book, even Law Enforcement Officers.  Even if you do not have children, you can still forward this to friends & family who do.
     

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RE: Important, especially if you have kids!
« Reply #1 on: April 14, 2008, 02:15:14 AM »
Thanks for sharing this Dave. I would like to add that MOST any aerosol can be used the same way, so if you have any that seem to run out sooner than it should, time to talk to your kids.
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RE: Important, especially if you have kids!
« Reply #2 on: April 14, 2008, 02:42:57 AM »
Thanks Dave,

  I forward it to friends and family. Maybe we will save someone and maybe pick up some  new members. I just sent a link to your post.
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RE: Important, especially if you have kids!
« Reply #3 on: April 14, 2008, 04:38:28 AM »
Yes it's not what's on the street anymore, it's the stuff in your cabinet's and shop's that we must keep under lock and key sad to say. :( Ed
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RE: Important, especially if you have kids!
« Reply #4 on: April 14, 2008, 05:08:57 AM »
news to me

remember once as a teenager being asked by some lads i knew who were slightly younger than me to get them tippex thinner, thought it was odd but thought the were barred from the shop for messing and since the next shop to stock those kinds of items was about a mile away, i got what the wanted, only found out later what it was to be used for, its not enough for the kids to stand tall and just say no, the rest of us have to say no if there is any doubt or you can become an unwitting dealer

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RE: Important, especially if you have kids!
« Reply #5 on: April 14, 2008, 05:47:44 AM »
This is truly a sad story,as all are with an ended life...............I am a C.A.S.A.C. (CERTIFIED ALCOHOL& SUBSTANCE ABUSE COUNSELOR),I have worked with adults,I have worked with adolecents..What I've preached to parents/gaurdiens,is that you can never be to persistant in teaching your children about the dangers of drugs/substances......I tell them that it is better to have your child upset,angry,ticked off at you for constantly nagging at them with the drug lectures,than it would be to have to bury your child from a drug  related death......I cannot stress the importance of educating ones self on substance abuse & behaviors of those involved....Like Ed Shadow stated,it is not just the street drugs,it is our every day products we store in our pantries,fridge,bathrooms........SUCH THINGS AS, WHIP CREAM CANS,VANILLA EXTRACT,MOST AEROSOL CANS,PAINTS & THINNERS,RUBBING ALCOHOL.............NOT TO MENTION THE BEER & WINE & VINEGAR...THAT STARES THEM IN THE FACE WHEN THEY OPEN THE FRIDGE...Trust Me,these products can KILL....It is a Painful/Helpless feeling to see someone you've invested 12-18 months helping them to overcome an addiction,found dead at 16 yrs old sniffing white-out & paint thinner......it only takes that one time......Dave your story has reminded me of what can never be forgotten....MAY GOD BLESS US ALL.......