I know what your saying Troy,
But, If you were there, none of this would have happened ! Now you must decide if you would or can kill this person. If he entered my home, and had a weapon in his position, I would offer one command to hit the floor, if he moved any way but down, I would shoot him. Time is very important in stopping an attack, any hesitation can be fatal !!!!! The home defender must be prepared to end all aggression of an attacker, at the first sign of the attacker making any move toward the owner.
If your not sure what you will be able to do, install a heavy exterior door on your bedroom with heavy bolts, top and bottom. Gather your family into your bedroom as you or your wife calls the POLICE, get them behind your bed and place your firearm across the bed, pointed at the door. I recommend a SHOTGUN loaded with #8 shot, maximum, your neighbors will thank you ! If the door is broken opened, you must fire your weapon as soon as you can identify your target, a policeman will thank you !
It is ALLWAYS VERY IMPORTANT TO IDENTIFY YOUR TARGET !!!!!
One night I heard unusual sounds downstairs, I carefully went to investigate. The noises continued in our kitchen, and as I slowly entered the kitchen, entering as low as I could, checking left to right as I entered, as the sound was to the right side, you don't want to have someone behind you as you challenge the intruder, that's another story. I heard a cilck ...cllick, I swear it sounded just like a revolver being cocked. I quickly turned toward the sound and began to squeeze the trigger, when I realized that the only thing there was the refrigerator ! At that point I had adrenalin squirting out of my ears, and my heart pounding louder than a drum ! I took a breath, turned the light on, still watchful of an intruder, still staying as low as I could. I backed out of the kitchen and went aroundthrough the living room to approach the area from behind, with the light on in the kitchen I could see no movement, I kept checking behind me, so I could not be taken by surprise. And then I again heard that that fearsome sound, click...cllick, but nothing was there, only the refrigerator ! At that time, I was on my stomach kissing the floor.
The moral of this account of my search for an intruder is, CAUTION, always CAUTION !!!! Heck, I almost killed my refrigerator !